I’m sorry I don’t understand what you mean. It was mostly a joke, however calling it shitty demeaning humor was not.
It’s in very bad taste to even suggest discussing shit (like reasonable humans might) and then throw out something that’s actually a sensitive topic at my expense
Did you consider that maybe I was genuinely saying i wasn’t going to go all shitty on you like your recent conversation partners and kind of poking fun at them
Most rape doesn’t happen like that, that’s some serial killer shit
Most rape happens by oblivious or unempathetic or whatever dudes
That’s kind of the range I’m talking about when I say I need to talk to rapists to understand the perspective better because I really don’t see how they can convince themselves they aren’t evil people after something like that
The learned misogyny is real. Some of it(rape culture and not directly misogyny, I suppose), maybe most of it, is just going through motions… literally I think it’s follow the motions type of thing and by copying stories and videos and whatever patterns they just monkey see monkey do and there’s nothing to question. They aren’t breaking rules or being bad, they’re doing what you do…
But I’ve never been one to avoid how I feel because some idiots or callous assholes are afraid or embarrassed of feelings - whether it’s someone else’s or their own.
I was thinking of a great thread idea exposing Dan’s sexual depravities but every dan thread idea I have is titled firstname lastname: provocative title so I can’t post it