I’m sorry I don’t understand what you mean. It was mostly a joke, however calling it shitty demeaning humor was not.
It’s in very bad taste to even suggest discussing shit (like reasonable humans might) and then throw out something that’s actually a sensitive topic at my expense
Did you consider that maybe I was genuinely saying i wasn’t going to go all shitty on you like your recent conversation partners and kind of poking fun at them
For me to talk about that sort of thing I’d need to know what “rape” is defined as.
I don’t know anyone who I think would violently grab a woman off of a hiking trail and attempt rape that ultimately leads to murder.
Getting with some chicks who are fucked up at a party or Dota tournament? Boy that list would be fucking long.
You’re not just “poking fun” at them, you’re being callous to me as a result. It is completely at my expense to publicly display that.
Does it hurt my feelings? Yes absolutely.
Most rape doesn’t happen like that, that’s some serial killer shit
Most rape happens by oblivious or unempathetic or whatever dudes
That’s kind of the range I’m talking about when I say I need to talk to rapists to understand the perspective better because I really don’t see how they can convince themselves they aren’t evil people after something like that
Joking is a way of coping with our negative feelings.
I think it was a shitty thing to say and I joke as a way of saying it wasn’t normal or acceptable.
Maybe I should be more straightforward with that but ultimately posting here earnestly is generally not a good game plan
Alright, Let’s talk tonight in the Discord.
Are you a rapist? Future rapist perhaps? You ever been to boston?
The learned misogyny is real. Some of it(rape culture and not directly misogyny, I suppose), maybe most of it, is just going through motions… literally I think it’s follow the motions type of thing and by copying stories and videos and whatever patterns they just monkey see monkey do and there’s nothing to question. They aren’t breaking rules or being bad, they’re doing what you do…
The irony is you don’t even know that this is a correct statement through a presuppositionists lens…
Yeah well, I’m gunna do me, and you can do you.
But I’ve never been one to avoid how I feel because some idiots or callous assholes are afraid or embarrassed of feelings - whether it’s someone else’s or their own.
Glad you were talking to Dan and not me…
phew
Is it true that dan the moderator is a bisexual
I was thinking of a great thread idea exposing Dan’s sexual depravities but every dan thread idea I have is titled firstname lastname: provocative title so I can’t post it
Who actually cares?
It took you that long to type that?
Yes he is a bisexual. I get some strange signals from him.
Luckily none of the ewiz thread ideas that have come to me over the wires have had his first or last name in them so there’s no shortage of those
I do too
Are you watching me typing out posts and tracking how long it takes to make fun of me for it because that doesn’t seem polite
You could even say… calloused and hurtful.
Would you really believe that’s what I were doing? I don’t see you making that poor of a distinction on my character.