Yea but you're not qualified at all to say that so it's like casual armchair psychologist who watched some YT videos trying to determine what my behavior patterns and deficiencies are based on some posts you read from me on a forum, you think that's going to be accurate? Do you have that big of an ego and view of yourself that you think you can accurately make that type of assessment?
You can argue a lot of people have personality disorders, like I can say the same about you but I don't really know you well enough. Just based on how much negative energy I am reading from you, I definitely can read there is more to what you are saying, you don't seem happy because if you are always having to question other people's life situation and compare yourself constantly, that isn't the behavior of someone who is happy. You are displaying highly neurotic behavior based on what I've read from you, which is symptomatic of some underlying anxieties, and lashing out like this is not healthy coping, but hey if it helps you deal with IRL stuff then go for it. HAHAHA.
The funny thing is you're using personality disorders and having traumas as like, an insult. That's so wrong and lacking in empathy. Everyone suffers trauma, and making this some combative, 'My life is better than you because of XYZ and you are a loser because of ABC' is in itself a very neurotic and insecure behavior, do you agree or disagree with that?
I mean, what do I even respond to this, like "I do have friends and you're wrong, let me show you how many friends I have", or ignore you and you're like haha you didn't respond back so that confirms you don't have friends so I'll just keep throwing out this insult constantly, like I bet you're a virgin and never had sex, I bet you're an incel, I bet you got bullied and were a loser, etc... It's just super negative, I can kind of see how you're trying to paint this picture and create this causal map inside of your head to explain behaviors and other things, you seem very confused and that's because your overly simplistic view of the world is being challenged and rather than reassess and modify/update your model, you're instead choosing to defend it by attacking the things that challenge your reality.
Fuck me, I need to just start working, I spent too much time on this, but good talk.
Maybe take a few deep breaths and go for a walk to calm down.
just ask him more about his mom and dad and you don't need to really concern yourself any further with his attempts to demean you and others by asking about parental relations.
most people's families are hot messes. they can point to some sources of issues, but someone who's been loved by parents (as evidence of their value and goodly self worth) wouldn't go around trying to smear other people by suggesting that if they dont' have good relations with their parents, they can't have value or be of good service to humanity, or live a balanced life to some degree. it's just stupid petty shit. big dragon is very petty and struggles very deeply with his own insecurities.
people who are supported and loved (and therefor of good service and compassionate) dont go around trying to make other people "less" or feel less-than for how they weren't loved as children (which, clearly, is a child's fault, anyway)
maybe small minded, entitled people do, though. certainly not people who are very compassionate as a result of being well loved and supported (and intelligent)
while these might be wise words, your general sentiment expressed around american politics and social constructs are indeed based mainly in self service and a lack of greater awareness.
that's fine - and completely expected.
big dragon may be going too far on people, but the idea behind his focus on your expressed points is not in itself "wrong" or unjustly targeted. the way that he is expressing his disagreement or discontentment is stupid, in my not so humble opinion, but nonetheless, i agree with a lot of his observations about your character. you spout a lot of 'good will towards the many' type sentiments that actually do not include many but your own demographic (short white kings? and sometimes well-to-do, attractive young people from other places that were privileged enough to attend school or dance with you) and so forth. it's honestly very sad.
