they don’t even feel that way it’s just how we’ve all been raised to think in our current society
i think once you have been dating for a while you have probably talked about it and maybe you both know one person makes more and its cool for them to pay the majority of the time, but on like your first couple dates having them offer to pay just to me shows that they are considerate and value your time and money
I’m just gonna pay for dates until she offers and if she doesn’t I don’t care as long as we’re having sex
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I think you’re projecting your own opinion out on “society”
Next time you go out and start a relationship with someone just try it. Just assume you are equals and will pay for things equally. Oh, you want to pay this time? Next time is my turn. And so on.
That said I’ve never split a bill thats some pussy shit
I don’t disagree with this but let’s narrow the scope down to first dates with women we’ve just met either through online dating apps or whatever
I’ve never used an online dating app in my entire life and probably won’t ever
It’s an amplifier for all the worst personality traits in people
I don’t think so
I’ve met two girlfriends off tinder including my last
Splitting a bill is the ultimate alibi though because you show that receipt and your real gf thinks nothings going on between you and your coworker
How were they
As human beings
really great actually
Better people than I am for sure
Hmm
How do you find the decent people
I mean I’ve met girls on there who aren’t so good but most of those just filter themselves out because they’re just on there to have sex or whatever
I guess maybe i’m just making an unfair assumption about people and not giving them a decent chance
well you just talk to them before setting up a date