I won't go that far, because it would somehow be worse to work backwards are try to fit a covert narc label on it. Truly I think she just has a lot of past unresolved trauma, learned unhealthy coping mechanisms, and values preservation of self above anything else. Being able to share your perspective and be vulnerable is not possible so when matched up against someone who can its labeled fake (since she can't reciprocate).
In other words I've been swept under a proverbial very lumpy rug.
abject denial. it's just what you're going to do, because you need me to fix something that's not fixable.
Yeah you're a WITCH.
you even blatantly lied again on this forum about it. how about just move on? like you're so happy and content now, how the fuck do you find yourself on this forum typing about shit that doesn't matter? hmm.
I have but that doesn't mean seeing you do this isn't incredibly disheartening, nor is whatever twisted memory of me you seem to carry. I see you still hurting, there's no reason to carry any from me, I didn't hurt you, that was self inflicted.
LMAO
Actually since whatever I write never lands for you I had chat gpt translate to nyte-english.
Reframed Message (for Nyte’s interpretive lens):
I’ve spent a lot of time trying to make sense of how things unfolded between us, and I’ll admit I’ve run myself in circles with it.
Not to untangle blame or reconstruct some airtight timeline—just trying to figure out if the story I walked away with was even remotely close to yours.I don’t expect a shared ending. It’s not about resolution or being seen as right. I think I just wanted to feel understood.
And maybe, in some part of me I wouldn’t have said out loud, I hoped you’d want that too.For what it's worth, I never wanted to rewrite history. I just didn’t want to be written out of it.
If it ever felt like I was speaking in paragraphs or trying to pin you down with “the right words,” it was never about control. It was about trying to meet you—even when I didn’t know where you were.
I don’t carry anger.
I just carry the echo of things that never quite landed.
This is the third time she has had this exact conversation on this forum. LMAO
THREE TIMES. There's probably been more too!
The DUMBEST person on this forum.
I think jdance asked me to read my girlfriend the thread at some point, after I did she wanted me to post a picture of us I said thats... not a good idea too many bad actors
yeah, sadly, the bad actors are mostly you at this point.
alas poor yorick
why does she say these things about me? i never hurt her. she's hurting. let me write a bunch of really terrible and personal stuff on a forum full of (DIRECT QUOTE) "BAD ACTORS"
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh yessssssss
godDAMN i am the dumbest one here, it's true
the only person who's dumb enough to get themselves into this same situation three times. LMAO
damn its almost like she refused any attempt to sort it out in private, then echoed anyone pushing the narrative that was favorable to her and not to me.
And I was down to let it slide, but it gets tiresome to be called a narcissist on loop when it doesn't even make sense.
maybe you might as well tell them the story about your gf so that we all have the "proper context" about something none of us ever asked about or cared about, because she says you're the best boyfriend ever - and yet you still spend time clacking away hundreds of words on a forum full of bad actors mainly targeting a person who doesn't want to have ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU.
WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK
you're lucky dude she was posting on the forum 6 months ago about how it was morally required to contact my ex-girlfriend to tell her I was going to kill her
Shes asleep behind me I spent a large chunk of my day with her because it was my day off.