There is this sexy ass girl who works at my bank beside me. Ive been flirting with her for a while (shes a gamer too). I finally got the balls and gave her some vitaplur gum with my number inside the pack on friday.
If you're flirting with her and she's being receptive then stop being a girl and just ask her if she's down to hang out with your sometime and if she says yes then take her phone number and send her a text asking her when she's free. It's not rocket science my dude, what is this roundabout bullshit with chewing gum?
All you have to do is grab lunch and then walk around a nice part of town chatting it up, and make sure you maintain physical contact from the start whether it be hand holding, arm over shoulder, hand on her lap when you're sitting next to her, or whatever. But always be keen on how she receives your actions, if she's being hesitant/uncomfortable than dial it back otherwise full force ahead.
Uhhh... I mean really just don't overthink it, that's the best advice I can give you, just go for it and stop pussyfooting about or else you're going to end up putting that pussy on a pedestal and psyche yourself out.