This is what an Ewiz apology looks like

[iaafr]

not homophobic btw

[yns]

Spicy buffalo for my chicken nuggets and they didn’t give me any fucking sauce

[huber]

Wow no sauce is criminal

[huber]

no sauce is so criminal I thought it must have been a wrong sauce not a no sauce

[yns]

exactly. And they made a big deal about it when I came in to get some because “the store is closed” but the door was fucking unlocked so no it wasn’t closed

[big_ass]

I don’t think I’ve always been kind with yns I probably called him a heroin addict or something at some point

[iaafr]

interesting kindness take

[iaafr]

i think your take on kindness might be the root of your image problems

[yns]

Yeah but at least I’m not gay like you

[big_ass]

With huber I think I owe a sincere apology for all the times I called him hubert doobert

[iaafr]

like some veneer of politeness?

you dont think that comes off as fake and gay?

[old_electrowizard_acc]

Since Alightsoul has no problem sharing private logs, I guess I won't either. Let's see what kind of light this paints you in (especially considering you said we were over the whole thing, when I clearly wasn't)

@big_ass

would you like to resolve this

@old_electrowizard_acc

Conditionally. If you have a temporary timeout from the lounge, everything’s fine for me

@big_ass

What is a temporary timeout from the lounge and what does it achieve

@old_electrowizard_acc

Idk the length would be up to ■■■, and it’s supposed to function as some time for you to prove you’re trustable

@big_ass

How exactly do i “prove im trustable” any more than I already have

@old_electrowizard_acc

Because it’s easy to do it for a day, harder for a period of time

@big_ass

I dont even know what that means

@big_ass

My posting in the lounge had no issues whatsoever. And I was in the lounge a long time when you were not even here.

@old_electrowizard_acc

It’s not your posting, as I’ve explained in the thread

@big_ass

I feel you’re using this opportunity to be vindictive and not seek compromise

@big_ass

I didn’t use any information from that thread and you know that.

@old_electrowizard_acc

Yeah but you used personal information to look up something that has my employer listed

@big_ass

Did you put up your info on Linkedin

@old_electrowizard_acc

That’s the fucking point of it. It doesn’t mean you should be trying to find my linkedin

@big_ass

What’s the point of it?

I feel that you posted information about yourself publicly and I looked it up. That’s what social media is there for.

I do agree LinkedIn is an issue because you’re compelled to have that up there these days and its hard to figure out how to limit it so that it can’t be accessed by random people online but can still be found by employers.

But I don’t think it’s a mortal sin to Google your name and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being curious about your education.

I think it’s natural when you talk a lot about your job & education for people to be curious and I just happened to have the ability to follow up on that curiosity. Like if a friend from high school ran into you and was talking about his job history - you’d look him up, right?

My only real regret here is that it’s pretty distressing to think somebody’s doing all that for some horribly malicious reason and I knew you still thought of me as horribly malicious so my priority was to head that off before it became an issue.

@big_ass

It might be best to leave behind the discussion of principles & past events and just focus on action going forward that will resolve the issue.

I was under the impression that you would have requests of me in order to help you feel better and put this behind us. And I was also under the impression that you would be aware you had done things wrong and would be open to requests from me to improve our relationship going forward.

For example, the constant maligning of my character is wrong, as is (or was) your pursuit of me when I wanted none of that attention and did nothing to attract that attention. We’ve talked and you’ve said how you’re past that, but I’m sure you can see your words are still being thrown in my face every single day and you are doing nothing to stop that.

@old_electrowizard_acc

See, you’re still turning this around. You did something wrong. You can’t admit that.

@big_ass

Ok, well take me through that. I am here to talk to you about it. And to listen.

@big_ass

I have to go out for a little while but I will read what you have to say when I get back and I will do my best to hear it.

But I don’t like that you’re trying to get me removed from the Lounge, when I did not do anything bad relating to the Lounge, and I have explained to you how this is hurtful to me and destroys my peaceful use of the site.

@old_electrowizard_acc

The fact that you can’t see why what you did is wrong is part of the problem. I shouldn’t have to walk you through that again.

@big_ass

That’s your call but i’m not the one stonewalling this

@old_electrowizard_acc

Yes you fucking are

@old_electrowizard_acc

I already explained why it crossed a line, and you show no remorse or anything

@big_ass

I explained where I think it crossed a line and apologized for that

I also explained where you crossed a line and you did not apologize for that or admit any wrongdoing

I said I would be open to hearing what more you had to say and you said “I shouldn’t have to explain that”

And I was going to give you like 4 hours to do it so I don’t see how you have to respond “I don’t want to have to type anything” like you did

@old_electrowizard_acc

I’m done with this trash conversation. You did not apologize in good faith, you keep trying to frame yourself as a victim, and refuse to own up to the problematic nature of your actions

@big_ass

Sure I did apologize in good faith. And I think we’re far enough apart on this that we won’t be coming around to a resolution and it’s largely due to your inability, once again, to admit when you’re wrong.

I think the right thing to do is just let you go out into the site and talk about your opinions and let other people tell you you’re a moron until you eventually learn something.

@old_electrowizard_acc

May I post the last few messages in your thread?

@big_ass

No.

[yns]

Is this the alightsoul apology thread now

[big_ass]

No, you can’t post those. Looks like you’re posting private messages without permission - please ban.

[iaafr]

some surface level “i want the best for you”?

[old_electrowizard_acc]

And you posted private chatlogs without permission. Go fuck yourself.

[iaafr]

f a k e a n d g a y o p

[ilmemmerdelui]

im refining my takes further

[big_ass]

LOL? I posted teamspeak logs to prove you were lying about the NMA IP stuff

[LuckyArtist]

Why’s jdance posting in threads that arent his?